we are an attached couple, top executives,who have paired up to fulfill our needs remaining unmet in the framework of our established family relationship. we find we are not able to satiate our carnal needs in monogamous relations especially with the efflux of time with intolerably insipid sameness pervading (or invading?) our sex-lives.we both are above the mid-forties when mid-life crisis stares us starkly both on the work/career and marital/family fronts.but we live life only once,there are no retakes in life,so we are in hot pursuit of sensual pleasures in consensual promiscuous relationships with couples and women ,preferably of our age ,who are cultured,fluent in English,who have the requisite savoir faire and elan,and more importantly ,who are not prissy,prudish affluenza-afflicted parvenus or social upstarts. we are average-looking people and are not aspiring to connect to wannabe Brangelinas or Ashabhis.for us ,good natured people are more valuable than the 'good-looking' ones..indeed,outlook is valued over looks,attitude over attributes.those with a jolly nature and a jaunty smile,those who consider one's disposition as much important as one's position or possessions,those who are not slime-balls or sleazebags,those who are not slavish to dogma or (melo)drama,in short those who are authentic and candid to the core and at peace with themselves are the ones in our target-group. as we both are swinging without the knowledge or permission of our spouses,discretion and confidentiality are paramount. we want our extra-marital (ad)ventures to be mind-bending,not mindless,senseless,mind-numbingly dull/ drab exercises. we have the impish itch to 'go against the grain',as we both relish and revel in the 'thrill of the illicit'.we want playmates with whom we can seize intimacy without forfeiting our privacy. for us ,the process is more important than the product or the proceeds,hence deliberately prolonged foreplay is a vital ingredient while navigating the pleasure gradient.for us sex is a fine art ,not a series of coarse acts;we want to link up with those who are adept at sensuous love-making,creatively using the 5 senses--sight,smell,sound,taste and touch- to build up ethereal and enabling environs to energize and enthuse the play-buddies to ascend the spiral and explode in entrancing, mind-blowing, spell-binding climactic episodes. we have found textual chemistry to be a good precursor of sexual chemistry;therefore,we look forward to erotic e-chats on ym or gtalk or bbm ; phone or cam contacts are impossible as we stay apart with our otherwise lovely families to whom we are steadfastly committed . we have recently graduated to group fun involving upto 5 compatible couples,wedded or otherwise and are thoroughly enjoying the randy meets.

My Ideal Person cpls,wedded or attached or ladies in the 40s n 50s who too want a certain level of spicyness in their otherwise icy sex-lives