If you surf the web to find those bondage sites and get excited but a little scared at the same time, you most certainly are submissive, but you wonder why it has to be so rough and scary. To explore your submissive side, does not mean that you have to be one of the women you see online. There are many ways to explore your submissive side without getting too extreme. Not that the desire to get extreme will never be there, sometimes it comes but sometimes it does not. It all depends on your level of acceptance and your willingness to push your limits. But most of all, it depends on you and who you really are on the inside, that part of you that you have been pushing down for so long. Here are a few indications of you needing to explore this submissive side you have: 1. After good sex with your partner, you still feel the need for something more and even harder. 2. You surf the web frequently wanting to learn more about the subject and you can't seem to find enough information. 3. Sometimes the thought of being submissive scares you a lot, but you notice you are excited at the same time. 4. Your sexual desires are becoming more of firmness or force with an aggressive man. 5. When having traditional sex, you can't wait to get it over with fast enough. 6. Sometimes you feel that you can't seem to get enough sex not matter how hard you try. 7. After sex, you feel real jumpy and sensitive to the touch, but you have a strange desire to try and push for more. 8. Sometimes you feel the need to be held down or even tied down in some way during sex. 9. You have a job of authority and you are just so tired of being in authority, you just want someone to take charge of you sexually. I know you really want to explore this side of you but you have a battle going on inside. People tell you so many bad things about it and it has kept you from moving forward so many times. You have read this far and found out some things about yourself but maybe you are still too scared and don't know what to do about it, or don't know how to do anything about it. What can you do to finally reach those peaks that you have only fantasized about? Well, You can start by just talking to someone who knows what you are going through and may know you better than you know yourself. I am here to either just talk to you or even maybe help you move forward in you exploration. Let's just talk, don't be shy, and push past your fears just a little. I know it is hard at first, but you can do it, I'm certain of it. If you don't talk now, the desires will only get stronger until you do. But most of all, you will be glad you did. Remember this, if you are submissive or think you are, and not exploring this side of you, then you are truly in bondage and torment and you can tell that I know you already. You may run right now, but when you return to find this ad again, I will still be here for when you are ready. Just say hi and I will take over.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman who wants to learn about her submissive side. Your experience level is not important to me because there is always much to learn. It does not matter your age as long as you're over 18. it does not matter what you think you look like. What matters most of all is your willingness to learn. Maybe it's time you push past your fears and finally reached those sexual limits you're only dreamed about.