I'll start off by saying that I have the extended communication package which allows all users to exchange messages with me. I'm recently separated, not looking for a new wife or in depth emotional relationship. Just looking for a lady, or couple, who understands that it's ok to enjoy whatever your fantasies are in real life, and enjoy them very enthusiastically. The lady may like to join up with me so that we can meet as a "couple". Someone who doesn't take life to seriously. I have natural serious demeanour which hides my usual humorous and laid back personality. I do also enjoy meals out, days out, the cinema and a few types of theatre and good conversation. If could be that a like minded lady would be willing to "partner up" for meetings with couples who only consider other couples in their profiles. I retired early, I am separated so no ties, I am willing to travel and would stay in a local hotel if the distance required it. My natural tendency is that I'm a Dom (if you need that explaining there's loads of interesting stuff on the right kind of website) and generally would like to find a submissive woman to have fun with. But that side of things isn't compulsory. I'm looking to meet a sexually adventurous woman, with few limits, who is open to fun anywhere and everywhere, not just the bedroom. A woman who wants to be taken to bed and spend hours being played with, toyed and fucked until she has orgasmed & squirted so many times that she's faint and exhausted. A bold claim, I know, but you'll never know whether I can walk the walk unless you at least talk to me 1st :-).

My Ideal Person A good conversationalist because, as all these things say, you have to be able to keep each other interested intellectually. The mind is the biggest sex organ, a cliché I know, but that's because it's true, and that's where you turn each other on.

Very uninhibited and very open minded, willing to play anytime and anywhere with mildly overweight old man with greying, thinning hair

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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